THE ACE AND ARO RELATIONSHIP GUIDE: MAKING IT WORK IN FRIENDSHIPS, LOVE AND SEX

NOW AVAILABLE FOR PRE-ORDER!


Should I be upfront with someone I'm interested in that I'm ace or aro?
How do I get people to respect my boundaries around intimacy?
What if I don't want intimacy at all?
It is selfish to pursue a relationship if I don't want romance?


These questions are not only a source of deep anxiety and frustration for ace and aro people - but limit the heights that ace and aro folks believe they can reach for in their lives. These questions make us believe that we should settle for less, when in fact we all deserve more.
. Whether we're talking about friendships, romantic relationships, casual dates or casual intimate partners, this guide will help you not only live authentically in your ace and aro identity, but joyfully share it with others.

PRE-ORDER THROUGH THESE INDIE BOOKSTORES!

These folks hosted online events:

Schuler Books - They hosted the online launch for I AM ACE!

Good Neighbor Bookstore - A favorite TikTok mutual, this very cool bookstore hosted a TikTok live convo for I AM ACE.

These folks hosted in-person events:

Women and Children First - They hosted an amazing Chicago panel that ended the book tour. I love this bookstore so much.

Second Flight Books and Main Street Books - These two stores in Lafayette, Indiana are incredible. I had an amazing university event here, and I loved the time I spent in these stores.

Bluestocking Bookshop - This awesome store hosted my first I AM ACE signing event! I had such a great time there. This bookstore has the best vibes, and I loved being there.

Busboys and Poets Takoma - These folks hosted an unbelievable Washington D.C. event for I AM ACE. This store is really cool, and when I visit D.C., I make it a point to visit.

Giovanni’s Room - This historic queer bookstore in Philadelphia hosted an incredible book event. Plus, it felt amazing to talk ace stuff in such a legendary store.


PRE-ORDER FROM AN INDIE BOOKSTORE, AND GET SOMETHING PERSONALIZED FROM ME!

Pre-ordering books are a really important part of a book’s launch. Pre-ordering is one of the most important ways you can support the arrival of the new book.

If you pre-order THE ACE AND ARO RELATIONSHIP GUIDE from one of the independent bookstores above — all indies that supported the release of I AM ACE — you’ll get something personalized from me.

All you have to do is:

  1. Pick any of the fine indie booksellers above and pre-order the book from them.

  2. Email me a copy of the order confirmation at cody@acedadadvice.com.

And from there, I’ll sort out with you a small token of my appreciation for supporting me and supporting indie booksellers.

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