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ACE DAD ADVICE: THE COLUMN

“Ace Dad Advice” is a project aimed at helping ace folks live their best ace life. But Ace Dad Advice can be useful for everyone. So if there’s something nagging you about love, sex, relationships, or anything queer… just ask!

Have a question for me? Email me at acedadadvice@gmail.com. Perhaps your question will show up in a future column.

Ace Dad Advice: I think I might be ace… what do I do with that?
Ace Dad Advice: I think I might be ace… what do I do with that?
Cody Daigle-OriansJune 16, 2023
Ace Dad Advice: Is this romantic attraction, and am I aromantic?
Ace Dad Advice: Is this romantic attraction, and am I aromantic?

Defining romantic attraction, and why we should feel empowered to choose labels.

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Cody Daigle-OriansMarch 13, 2023
Ace Dad Advice: Can I call myself fraysexual?
Ace Dad Advice: Can I call myself fraysexual?
Cody Daigle-OriansJanuary 18, 2023
Ace Dad Advice: How do I talk to my friends about the impending changes in our friendship?
Ace Dad Advice: How do I talk to my friends about the impending changes in our friendship?

I’m aroace, and my friends are looking to start a family. This will change our relationship in big ways.

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Cody Daigle-OriansJanuary 9, 2023
Ace Dad Advice: How do I know I'm really asexual?
Ace Dad Advice: How do I know I'm really asexual?
Cody Daigle-OriansJanuary 2, 2023
Ace Dad Advice: I'm 74, and I might be ace. Does it matter?
Ace Dad Advice: I'm 74, and I might be ace. Does it matter?

Does it matter to figure out you’re asexual at 74?

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Cody Daigle-OriansNovember 8, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: Talking with your Doctor
Ace Dad Advice: Talking with your Doctor

Advocating for yourself can be challenging for ace folks.

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Cody Daigle-OriansSeptember 25, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: What if I'm not ace and just lying to myself?
Ace Dad Advice: What if I'm not ace and just lying to myself?

We have to learn to trust ourselves and our own experience.

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Cody Daigle-OriansSeptember 2, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: Our sex life has changed. Is it asexuality?
Ace Dad Advice: Our sex life has changed. Is it asexuality?

Advice on navigating changes in your sex life.

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Cody Daigle-OriansSeptember 2, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: If the "normal" life milestones are off the table for me, what else is there?
Ace Dad Advice: If the "normal" life milestones are off the table for me, what else is there?

If we reject the usual life milestones, what can we use to mark our progress in life?

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Cody Daigle-OriansAugust 6, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: Relationships for sex-repulsed ace folks?
Ace Dad Advice: Relationships for sex-repulsed ace folks?

Some tactics on pursuing relationships when you’re a sex-repulsed ace.

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Cody Daigle-OriansAugust 4, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: What if the community doesn't feel like "community?"
Ace Dad Advice: What if the community doesn't feel like "community?"

What do you do when the ace community doesn’t fit your needs as an ace person?

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Cody Daigle-OriansJuly 24, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: Am I gay or bi?
Ace Dad Advice: Am I gay or bi?

Deciding on what label to use doesn’t have to limit you.

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Cody Daigle-OriansJuly 24, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: How can I be sure it's not sexual attraction?
Ace Dad Advice: How can I be sure it's not sexual attraction?

How to manage the uncertainty of whether or not it’s really attraction.

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Cody Daigle-OriansJune 20, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: I'm stuck on labels. Help!
Ace Dad Advice: I'm stuck on labels. Help!

When multiple labels make sense, which do you choose?

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Cody Daigle-OriansMay 15, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: I don't get romance. Am I missing out?
Ace Dad Advice: I don't get romance. Am I missing out?

I don’t get romance. Am I missing out on something important?

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Cody Daigle-OriansMay 15, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: How can I be proud of my queerness without making others feel shame for theirs?
Ace Dad Advice: How can I be proud of my queerness without making others feel shame for theirs?

Should I be loud and proud, or take a backseat?

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Cody Daigle-OriansMay 8, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: I think I'm aroace, but what if I'm wrong about the label?
Ace Dad Advice: I think I'm aroace, but what if I'm wrong about the label?

What if you’re not sure you’re really the identity label you want to use.

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Cody Daigle-OriansMay 1, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: How do I grieve the life I could have had if I'd learned about asexuality sooner?
Ace Dad Advice: How do I grieve the life I could have had if I'd learned about asexuality sooner?

How to let go and move on with your life.

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Cody Daigle-OriansApril 30, 2022
Ace Dad Advice: My friends keep choosing their romantic relationships over our friendships. Help!
Ace Dad Advice: My friends keep choosing their romantic relationships over our friendships. Help!

It’s hard to stay proud of your aceness when romantic relationships always trump your friendships.

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Cody Daigle-OriansApril 20, 2022
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